I cant go a day without talking to you meaning

He will go a whole day without talking to me. Not even one text to let me know he's thinking of me. He says I'm lazy because I don't text him first. No. I always initiate everything. Last time I did he pretty much blew me off and lied about it. We got in a fight when I was trying to break up with him. I told him he dosent care, and then he said it's hard to when, and then proceeded to give me a list of reasons including one of them being that people tell him stuff. Obviously about me. I keep asking and he won't tell me. I'm so hurt. So I'm giving him short replies to everything. Can't even break up now because he never even talks to me. Ugh.

Advice please? I keep giving attitude and I knkw I shouldn't, but he has previously hurt me so bad I have so much resentment going on here.

#2

Johnny Nicks

7 years ago

Whether a guy contacts you or not each day, may have nothing to do with how much he cares. But it is clearly important for you. so communicate your needs clearly, as well as what you see as the consequences..

#3

Numb

7 years ago

I have. I always do. I told him what I don't like, and it hadn't changed.
But what about this "stuff that he hears" obviously people are telling him stuff about me, and I asked him why he won't tell me, and he said cause. I gave him attitude after that. If he was even so much as a friend, he would tell me. I don't want to talk to him until he tells me. Which will be forever considering he never even talks to me.

#4

Nicole

7 years ago

I feel where u coming from I say just stop talking to him all together

#5

Bianca

5 years ago

#6

Readyset

5 years ago

A guy can feel pressure in a relationship even if you don't say anything... they just know. Some guys won't do things simply because he is expected to. You need to get busy doing your own life and he will eventually turn around and wonder what's going on. Guys love the chase!

#7

Giani

5 years ago

This chase thing is so ***** stupid lmao.

He doesnt talk to you because ure boring, I had a boring gf and i never talked to her, but i did love her. If u want him to talk to you you have to be more intresting

#8

Jessica.

5 years ago

I’m coming from the same POV like he’ll go a day maybe even two or longer without talking to me and when I talk to him first he doesn’t seem interested at all like I could’ve gotten the biggest news of my life and I’m dying to tell someone and it just got to the point where I keep it all to myself . I understand he’s got a life of his own and I got a life of my own but it just would be nice hearing from him because even if I’m busy as hell I still wanna talk to him and see how his day was . But I don’t understand how boys work or men whatever

#9

Ls

5 years ago

#10

Think about it.

5 years ago

In my experience I've noticed when a guy is like that it doesn't work out in the long run. I think they are keeping you around to fill a hole until something better comes around. I could be wrong... but when a really wants you he doesn't to leave too much time between each contact in fear of another man snatching you up.

#11

thegirlnextdoor

5 years ago

Why should we chase a guy we are involved with? That's extremely lame and manipulative. That goes for both sides.

#12

Merida

5 years ago

#13

<phone>

4 years ago

Ijust need to know if My boyfriend Jackson is cheating on me

#14

Unknown

4 years ago

If a guy cares about his girlfriend he would not go a whole day or days without talking to her and that is a fact.

#15

octodad45

4 years ago

Heart makes distance grow fonder? Like seriously get a grip, some people are not that clingy some are more some are less. Some long distance couples communicate once per week or twice, its personal prefference. Maybe he had alot of ****, maybe he is saving conversation topics or maybe just maybe he is afraid he will be clingy or maybe he is into you but not head over heels????

Quite the opposite if someone was stringing you along, he would make sure you are reeled in, in case his other conquests fail, to have that constant ego trip. Please use logic.

#16

Pinara Smith

2 years ago

Hello!
You do not need his permission to break up with him. Just go "No Contact" and text him, "Since you do not text me back or call me, I cannot make plans to meet with you face to face to tell you that 'I'm breaking up with you'."

He does not care about you and you are his back-up plan or he's telling you he has broken up with you, you just didn't know it because he was not "mature enough" to tell you to your face. When a guy treats you like this, he is of course being disrespectful. You deserve better and I would dig deeper on why you attract these types of guys to you, so that you can heal these emotional wounds and better, more healthy and mature guys will attract themselves to your way.

#17

SomebodyElse

1 year ago

You’re wasting your time trying to get affection from an emotionally stingy manchild who plays mind games with you. Drop him. You can do that without any discussion with him. You deserve better, and he has no incentive to change until his heart gets broken, which may never happen.

Stop trying to get blood from a stone.

#18

Yvonne

11 months ago

Good day everyone, I have a boyfriend whom we stayed not far from ourselves and we started our relationship together so sweet, we had plans and he even thought of getting married to me soon, during this period things wasnt smooth for him but i stood by him and not requesting a dime from him infact, thou whenever he has cash he makes me feel like a queen, takes me out send me money before I even ask for it, now we had plans to move forward and the plan was that he is going to go to another state which is far from where we use to stay start a new life get a new home there for us to settle and come to pick me, mind you i still stay in our former area when he left, he got a job then his first week living there he calls and text to check on me. It was of recent i noticed his change in attitudes in checking me, he stop texting me good morning or saying any goodnight for two days straight, he only texted how was your day once which is unlike of him.. pls help me what could be going on i feel this relationship is drawing back and hurt me a lot.

#19

Spitfire

11 months ago

A change I relationship dynamic is always difficult to take. Have you asked him what's going on and told him how him being distant makes you feel?

#20

gymgirlie

11 months ago

Maybe the physical distance he’s backing off because he’s got other things on his mind such as the job and building a new life and let’s face it, when one goes away like that no one can know the future, but things like good morning sweetie might just be on hold because it might be hard for him to go away from the physicality as well And it’s just a protective instinct to become more formal and casual rather than being so attentive. Only time can tell.